Thursday, May 3, 2012

Rejected

          One situation in which a person might feel that they have been repeatedly rejected by others would be if they had to enroll in a new school. Other students at first may not except the new students. Especially if it is in middle school or high school because it is more difficult to fit in. For example, anyone might not want to talk to her/him to get to know them if they dont seem interesting. Another example would be if the students who have been attending that school longer had to pick groups for a class activity, they are more likely to pick the students that they already know which will leave the new student to be picked last.
          These scenarios could make the student feel like an outcast because they were rejected. He/she might also feel lowsy, depressed, or lonely because they are not fitting in well. As a result he/she might feel as if no one wants to be their friend. Along with this she/he could even feel desperate for a friend. In response to this she might change certain things about herself to try to fit in better.
          This situation may occur at first for a new student but eventually will get better. After a few days the new student may work up the courage to talk to someone and they may become friends. Once he/she has made a friend, the friend will most likely introduce the new student to their friends. Therefore this will resolve the problem and he/she will no longer feel rejected.

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